Thanksgivin
Pros:
Food for everyone
Get to give thanks for what we have
Family time
Turkey
Ham
Grandma's gravy < 3
Pictures, (so many)
Dallas Cowboys Game
Cons:
Gaining weight
Family time, (too much)
Crazy drunks.
Christmas
Pros:
Jesus' birthday < 3
Church
Gifts
Family time
More ham, (usually)
Food for everyone
Cons:
Not everyone gets what they really wanted, (sometimes)
More family time, (too much)
Spoiled kids who throw fits.
It's over
Santa Claus isn't real, or is dead?
I honestly do not have a favorite out of the two. I like that on Thanksgiving we get to give thanks for what we have, but people should do that everyday. My favorite holiday honestly is New Years, because its a fresh clean slate stating that it's a new year & this new year we have the option to better ourselves or to just stay the way were. It's really hard for me to choose a new year resolution, I wanna better myself in so many ways. & i will. :)
- A
It really all depends on the household. Like if the dad has a really well paying job that the mom doesn't need to work. If the household has younger children, & can't afford day care. Also, if the mom really isn't capable of working, then she shouldn't be. Just sayin. If she decides that she doesn't want to work, then that's all on her. But is she has kids (young), then she knows that she has to be the one to take care of them.
If she is a single mom--ofcourse--she has to work. She is the provider for her children. Maybe, (in some cases) she gets child support, that helps a little. She shouldn't just try to live off of that, that just shows pure laziness. She needs to step her game up as a mother, because by her doing that, she's just teaching her children to be lazy as well.
I personally, am a very forgiving person. Which is both good & bad.
It's healthy, but also, not. It's healthy, because who wants to hold a grudge all their life? You have to move on at one point in your life. It not so healthy, because then you're just going to allow everyone to run all over you. & I, myself will not allow someone to walk all over me. I won't allow someone to do that to me. I'm a really nice person, sometimes too nice. & I always forgive people too easily.
Forgiving, is good. Forgetting is also, more forgetting. I know we all sin daily, & God forgives us, if we ask for it. Someone can't just expect to be forgiven, it doesn't work that way, sorry bud. But if you admit that you're wrong, then maybe, JUST MAYBE, I'll think about forgiving you. It's very hard to forgive someone, especially to someone who won't or will refuse to tell the truth. That sickens me. If you know you did something wrong, please, I beg of you, tell me. I'll be very upset if you don't, & there goes our friendship.
Source for 'if forgiveness is healthy':
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131
My ideal mate.. It's pretty tough to talk about this because, well I always thought of Jake as someone just like me. So my hopes were high. But that's over.
What I think my 'ideal mate' should have... Class of course, a sense of humor please! Omg, if he could Not make me laugh, that is the first red flag leading to a dump. I'm serious, if he's not funny... (Another slit to my wrist) Justkidding Miss Chisholm :) I'm of course going to interest him in my moustache obsession. Hey, who knows, maybe he won't be creeped out by it. Ha. He has to have at least a little home training :P If not, then we have a problem & WILL NOT be able to go on dates where we have to eat. Haha.
He must have a great smile, or at least a decent one :) A sense of style, that's a MUST. If he can't dress, we ain't chillin. Haha :P If he's one to have more issues than me, I'd be happy to help until I was to a certain extent. I want someone who's happy & matches the things that I enjoy.
These things that I require are important because if they can't make me happy, then 'we ain't chillin'. I want someone to comfort me when I need comforting, someone to hold my hand & be by my side through ups & downs. If he can do that for me, then I'll be happt to do it for him too.
Dream guy, where are you? < 3
Well, I’d never want to see you unhappy
I thought you’d want the same for me
Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I’m trying not to think about you
Can’t you just let me be
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should’ve known you’d bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do
