Thursday, December 2, 2010

Rachel's Challenge?


 "We exist to inspire, equip and empower every person to create a permanent positive culture change in their school, business and community by starting a chain reaction of kindness and compassion". According to http://www.rachelschallenge.org/LearnMore/OurMission.php, this was Rachel's challenge. She wanted to make a difference & start a chain reaction. Rachel Joy Scott (August 5, 1981 – April 20, 1999) was the first victim of the Columbine High School massacre, which claimed the lives of 12 students and one teacher, along with the two perpetrators, in one of the deadliest school shootings in United States history. In her essay that she wrote months before her death (My Ethics, My Codes of Life), Rachel sets five challenges for her readers: 1. eliminate prejudice; look for the best in others 2. dare to dream; set goals and keep a journal 3. choose positive influences; input determines output 4. kind words; little acts of kindness 5. start a chain reaction. 
Rachel's Challenge is very important because for one, their aren't enough people in this world that want to make a difference in people's lives. Everyone thinks that it's okay to stay a typical human on this Earth, but more should want to stand out. They should wanna bring kindness, 'choose positive influences' instead of drugs & such. Being an average student isn't enough for me, it wouldn't cut it for me, & definitely not for Rachel. Of course I accept everyone as they are, I dare not to judge you, I would just like to expect more from people who say that they want to make a difference & start a 'chain reaction' like Rachel. "People will never know how far a little kindness can go."

I personally would love to become a part of Rachel's challenge, I would accept it in a heart beat. I hadn't thought much about making a huge difference, I just knew that I wanted to change lives. I love to help people, & be there for them. I want to continue to share my kindness w/ others, & inspire them & tell them what Rachel told us, "People will never know how far a little kindness can go". I want to help & inspire others to be kind because being a bully or just a mean person in general will get you no where. I want to go out of my way to show compassion.

Rachel's challenge has touched so many students. Over eleven million people have heard the story about her. It has inspired others to be kind & want to show compassion. I only wish that someone had come to our school to talk to our student body about this challenge. It would've been so much easier to reach out to them if someone from her family had come to speak to us. But that didn't happen, I had to find out more about it from doing this Communication Applications project essay. Before this assignment was given, all I knew about Rachel's challenge was that some girl that was shot in a school shooting wanted to help stop bullying. I'm very thankful for having to do this essay, I would've never found the time to read about this girl & what she has accomplished.

I wished I had been there at the time of when the little speech was given to our middle school. i don't see how they expected us to find out about this challenge if we were never talked to about it. Looks like we had to find out what it was about ourselves.. I want to do more than show kindness, Rachel Scott's story has inspired me deeply me & has set an impact on my heart to want to change & be a way better person. I read on Wikipedia, (I wasn't sure to believe it or not) that the two boys who were shooting helpless human beings shot Rachel because she said that she believed in Jesus Christ. So that she died as a Martyr. That'd be so amazing if that was true, I would have done the same. Jesus died on the cross for us, so why can't we stand up for what we believe in, Him.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Thanksgivin Vs. Christmas. This is the best topic ever.


Thanksgivin
Pros:
Food for everyone
Get to give thanks for what we have
Family time
Turkey
Ham
Grandma's gravy < 3
Pictures, (so many)
Dallas Cowboys Game

Cons:
Gaining weight
Family time, (too much)
Crazy drunks.

Christmas
Pros:
Jesus' birthday < 3
Church
Gifts
Family time
More ham, (usually)
Food for everyone

Cons:
Not everyone gets what they really wanted, (sometimes)
More family time, (too much)
Spoiled kids who throw fits.
It's over
Santa Claus isn't real, or is dead?


I honestly do not have a favorite out of the two. I like that on Thanksgiving we get to give thanks for what we have, but people should do that everyday. My favorite holiday honestly is New Years, because its a fresh clean slate stating that it's a new year & this new year we have the option to better ourselves or to just stay the way were. It's really hard for me to choose a new year resolution, I wanna better myself in so many ways. & i will. :)








- A

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Women Workin < 3

It really all depends on the household. Like if the dad has a really well paying job that the mom doesn't need to work. If the household has younger children, & can't  afford day care. Also, if the mom really isn't capable of working, then she shouldn't be. Just sayin. If she decides that she doesn't want to work, then that's all on her. But is she has kids (young), then she knows that she has to be the one to take care of them.
If she is a single mom--ofcourse--she has to work. She is the provider for her children. Maybe, (in some cases) she gets child support, that helps a little. She shouldn't just try to live off of that, that just shows pure laziness. She needs to step her game up as a mother, because by her doing that, she's just teaching her children to be lazy as well.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Forgiveness? Maybe.

I personally, am a very forgiving person. Which is both good & bad.
It's healthy, but also, not. It's healthy, because who wants to hold a grudge all their life? You have to move on at one point in your life. It not so healthy, because then you're just going to allow everyone to run all over you. & I, myself will not allow someone to walk all over me. I won't allow someone to do that to me. I'm a really nice person, sometimes too nice. & I always forgive people too easily.
Forgiving, is good. Forgetting is also, more forgetting. I know we all sin daily, & God forgives us, if we ask for it. Someone can't just expect to be forgiven, it doesn't work that way, sorry bud. But if you admit that you're wrong, then maybe, JUST MAYBE, I'll think about forgiving you. It's very hard to forgive someone, especially to someone who won't or will refuse to tell the truth. That sickens me. If you know you did something wrong, please, I beg of you, tell me. I'll be very upset if you don't, & there goes our friendship.


Source for 'if forgiveness is healthy':
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131

Friday, November 12, 2010

My Ideal Mate...

My ideal mate.. It's pretty tough to talk about this because, well I always thought of Jake as someone just like me. So my hopes were high. But that's over.
What I think my 'ideal mate' should have... Class of course, a sense of humor please! Omg, if he could Not make me laugh, that is the first red flag leading to a dump. I'm serious, if he's not funny... (Another slit to my wrist) Justkidding Miss Chisholm :) I'm of course going to interest him in my moustache obsession. Hey, who knows, maybe he won't be creeped out by it. Ha. He has to have at least a little home training :P If not, then we have a problem & WILL NOT be able to go on dates where we have to eat. Haha.
He must have a great smile, or at least a decent one :) A sense of style, that's a MUST. If he can't dress, we ain't chillin. Haha :P If he's one to have more issues than me, I'd be happy to help until I was to a certain extent. I want someone who's happy & matches the things that I enjoy.
These things that I require are important because if they can't make me happy, then 'we ain't chillin'. I want someone to comfort me when I need comforting, someone to hold my hand & be by my side through ups & downs. If he can do that for me, then I'll be happt to do it for him too.
Dream guy, where are you? < 3